Housing is a core unresolved conflict here on Martha’s Vineyard. That’s why we are so pleased to support Healthy Aging MV with their new initiative called Home Sharing. We will be providing Facilitation and Conflict Coaching services for Healthy Aging participants as the host and guest work out mutually agreeable terms for sharing a home.
Mediators’ Check-in
RE-ENTRY PROGRAM: Making the Transition from Incarceration to Community Easier
Re-entry mediation is an opportunity to make plans for the future. These mediation sessions can include up to three people––the individual’s family, friends, workplace associates, fellow church members, etc. Participants should be individuals who are important to the person who is or was incarcerated and who would benefit from a conversation in a neutral and safe setting. All cases are confidential.
DEIJ + B: Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, Justice, and Belonging
MVMP is pleased to be one of ten organizations selected to participate in a multi-session intensive training on Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, Justice, and Belonging (DEI J + B). In August, our staff participated in a kickoff session hosted by the MVNC in collaboration with Vernetta Walker & Associates Consulting and Sage Consulting Network. Prior to the session, staff had the opportunity to complete individual assessments to explore levels of understanding and comfort discussing topics like equity, structural racism, white dominant culture, and implicit bias. It was great to share observations in person with members of the 2022 cohort.
Introduction to Mediation Course Begins September 27, 2022
Things To Read In September
Mediation Musings: September 2022
Thrum. Thrum. Bong. Bong. Step. Step. The sounds of the Queen of England’s funeral events had a somber musical score to match the occasion. A riveting theme for Britain and around the world. Throngs of well-wishers lined the avenues. Some commented that, despite the deep divides in that county and the vestiges of the colonial empire, the event of her death was uniting. At least for a historical moment.
Don't Miss Out on Our Upcoming Conflict Resolution Course
Participants in this course will learn coaching techniques to help guide individuals toward new approaches to manage conflict in everyday life. MV Mediation uses the CLAMSHELL model of conflict coaching. Each session will involve role playing and interactive exercises. This course will be a useful preparation class for those who want to move into learning mediation skills. Many past participants have found good use for conflict coaching approaches at work, home and in their community.
Agricultural Mediation
Martha's Vineyard Mediation is part of a national network of USDA-supported farm, agriculture, and aquaculture mediation programs. If you know of any farms, farm stands, CSAs, or agricultural/ aqua-cultural businesses that have conflicts with debt, neighbors, succession planning, workplace conflict, management, or other matters, MV Mediation can help. Most services are free or low cost through USDA funding. We work with farms in Dukes, Barnstable, Bristol, and Plymouth Counties.
Pickleball!
If someone had told me 10 years ago that I might suggest renaming our organization the Pickleball Mediation Program I would have laughed at the joke. I had no way of knowing even what pickleball was or how it would affect our program. A couple of years ago though, it appeared to me that the entire Board and service provider roster were a little more interested in playing pickleball than doing mediations. I, who cannot seem to hit anything with a bat, racket, or paddle to save my life, made fun of the crowd I called "pickleball mediators." We thought about having a pickleball tournament to raise money. We came up with metaphors about the game related to conflict resolution.
Conflict Coaching Can Help You
Mediation Musings: Summer 2022
My conflict coach asked me a question. I didn't think much of it; she had been asking questions all along and we had developed a good rapport. As a first-time coaching client, I was enjoying the process. Shawra, my coach, had a nice tone to her voice. (The sessions were all by phone in those pre-Zoom days.) She seemed kind.
Upcoming for Mediators, Coaches, and Facilitators
Mediators' Check-in
Check in every Wednesday 4–5 p.m. to discuss aspects of conflict resolution in our community.
June 8 Balancing an Imbalance of Power in mediation
June 15 Mediation-Sticking with it and moving it forward
June 22 Better listening for mediators and coaches
June 29 Measuring success--process or outcome
July 6 Relational or Transactional Conflict? Different tools to use.
July 13 Types of Mediation--Agricultural, Construction, Land Disputes
July 20 Types of Mediation--Family, Elder, Divorce,
July 27 Types of Mediation--Housing
August 3 Types of Mediation-Workplace
August 10 Conflict Coaching-Coaching and mediation
Introduction to Mediation Course: September 2022
We are finishing up a very successful 12 session Intro to Mediation course. Eight new mediators! We need them. Congratulations Ali, Amelia, Corwyn, Gail, Laura, Laurie, Leo, Winonah.
Our next Introduction to Mediation Course will begin in September 2022. There are two sections.
Section One: Mediation Basics––6 sessions September–October.
Section Two: Mediation Qualification––6 sessions November–December.
Mediation Musings: June 2022
Conflict resolution techniques are not manipulation or coercion. In fact they are the opposite. When we teach a new approach such as question construction or detecting interests, better listening techniques, or using neutral language it's not to work on the other person. We are working on ourselves. Building our tool box. Expanding our repertoire. Taking responsibility for our own part in the conflict and in making the world around us a better place.
Affordable Housing
Dukes County Housing Authority announces 20 rental units which will be made available through a lottery. Kuhn's Way is in the process of being built. Spread the word about this important opportunity.
Upcoming for Mediators, Coaches, and Facilitators
Check in every Wednesday 4–5 p.m. to discuss aspects of conflict resolution in our community.
May 18 - History of MV Mediation and our network with the Massachusetts Office of Public Collaboration
May 25 - Asking Better Questions in mediation and coaching
June 1 - Gender Bias: updating our language and understanding
June 8 - Ethical Challenges: The daily practice of considering our ethical decisions
MV Mediation Youth Program
We are finishing up with the 4th grades at the Edgartown School. Next comes the 3rd grade. We are working on making a role play video with the Charter School group. Our plan next school year is to expand our reach. Do you know of a school where our work is needed? We'd like to get started early in the school year.
Introduction to Mediation Course
RE-ENTRY PROGRAM: Making the Transition from Incarceration to Community Easier
The missing element of re-entry services for incarcerated people in MA is the pro-social element. The Re-entry Mediation Program (ReMAp) focuses on this element, provided by a network of community mediation centers under a program administered by the MA Office of Public Collaboration at the McCormack Graduate School.